10 Tenets to Healthy Relationships

Healthy relationships don’t just magically happen. There are several key ingredients that are present in every healthy relationship and some that are necessarily absent. Too many people normalize harmful behaviors and dismiss the importance of positive behaviors. The bottom-line is however you can’t have great relationships if you and others aren’t great in them. If […]

The Loss of Self and Finding Yourself Again

Finding Yourself Again Women I work with often tell me they’ve lost themselves. Somewhere along the way, they stopped seeing things through their own lenses, stopped taking care of their needs and stopped paying attention to what they wanted. Instead, they took care of the kids, tried to be there for their husbands, worked hard […]

The Cost of the Quick Fix is More Than You Imagine

As I sit with yet another couple drowning from the fallout of another affair, I’m struck by what seems to be an epidemic of people looking for the quick fix to life’s problems. •    People unhappy in their marriages are turning to affairs. •    People feeling sad or down want a drug to make the […]