The Cost of the Quick Fix is More Than You Imagine

As I sit with yet another couple drowning from the fallout of another affair, I’m struck by what seems to be an epidemic of people looking for the quick fix to life’s problems. •    People unhappy in their marriages are turning to affairs. •    People feeling sad or down want a drug to make the […]

How to Squash Sex and Intimacy in Your Marriage (Part 1)

Couples are struggling to keep up the intimacy in their marriages—emotionally and physically. Studies show that 15-20% of marriages are sexless. Some of these marriages are still within the first five years of marriage! Many marriages are also devoid of emotional intimacy. The combination of no sex and a lack of emotional connection can be […]

“Apologizing is Weak” is a Crazy Notion

The belief that “apologizing is weak” is a crazy notion that is harming countless relationships. Having this belief sets a person up to defend, deflect or rationalize their behavior. In essence, s/he will do anything except apologize, dare to be accountable or be courageous enough to own her/his mistakes. The irony in this belief is […]