“Minds are like parachutes–they only function when open.” ~Thomas Dewar
Closing your mind to views that differ from yours leaves you unable to make an informed decision. There is a strong pull for people to encapsulate themselves with information that confirms their strongly held beliefs. They may read only from sources that “confirm” their thinking, surrounding themselves with people who share their viewpoints and listen only to speakers, politicians, leaders, radio and TV that preach their “truth.” It’s as though they fear that hearing other viewpoints might weaken their own. As a result, some people figuratively put their fingers in their ears and refuse to listen to a differing viewpoint.
Holding steadfast to our beliefs—without being willing to hear opposing beliefs with an open mind—leads to the polarization of our culture. The truth is, seldom is there no validity to another person’s viewpoint. And seldom are ALL of our own beliefs 100% accurate or not susceptible to challenges. We so often become more concerned about being right and getting others to “see the light,” that we forget to honor one another’s humanity and intellectual capacities. It’s time we dare to listen—truly listen — to all that’s out there, not just those beliefs that line up with our own. Knowing only half the story gives you only half the information. We cannot make a healthy, informed decision on only half the information—especially when we’re biased about the half we take in.
Get all the facts—from multiple sides. If, with all the information, you still believe what you did, then awesome—now at least you have an understanding of why others believe differently. Being more widely informed is an asset—seek it out.
Be courageous enough to be curious. Listen to “the other side” and do so with an open mind—not a righteous one. Regardless of whether you’re talking about politics, religion, parenting or management, be daring enough to look for the “truth” in what the other side says, as well.
There are few things more powerful than an educated mind. Educate yours by getting a better understanding of how and why others think the way they do.
Challenge: Find someone who thinks differently from you on a serious topic and interview him or her. Get curious about why they think what they do. Do not try to change their viewpoints—try to understand them. Understanding does not require agreement.