If I hear one more woman tell me her husband is a “nice guy” right after giving me example after example of how NOT “nice” he is, I’m going to scream. Women—P-L-E-A-S-E—stop telling yourself what a nice guy your husband is after he rages at you, makes fun of you, calls you names, lies, cheats, […]
Operating Instructions for Creating Unhealthy, Unfulfilling, Miserable Relationships (Part I)
A dash of unconsciousness, a dab of aloofness, a healthy serving of unhealthy self-esteem, a spoonful of selfishness, a touch of reactivity and a sprinkle of rage and intimidation are the main ingredients to creating an incredibly miserable relationship. Top it off with defensiveness and voilà there you have it. And here’s how you put […]
Ten Ways to Sabotage Intimacy and Connection (Part I)
The divorce rate remains as high today as it was decades ago. Individuals are waiting longer and longer to get married and many are choosing to never get married in the first place. Couples are swinging, teens are embracing the idea of “friends with benefits” and people continue to complain about being lonely and desperately […]