Supporting Loved Ones in the Aftermath of Affairs (Part II)

This is the final part of last week’s post ( on supporting your loved ones through the fallout of affairs. 1. Multiple affairs increase the pain and the healing time. If this is not the first affair, then the healing will take longer. Now the person is angry with their spouse for cheating in the […]

Operating Instructions for Creating Miserable, Unfulfilling, Unhealthy Relationships (Part II)

1.    Make everything about you. No matter what is going on, constantly turn it around and talk about how it is affecting you. If your partner’s upset—talk about your upset. If your partner wants support for their dreams, whine about how they should be supporting your dreams. Who do they think they are, trying to […]