ARE YOU COVERING FOR YOUR PARTNER’S RELATIONAL MALICE? IF SO, STOP IT AND ALLOW THEM TO FEEL THE BRUNT OF THEIR ACTIONS

I’ve heard so many stories through the years of people covering up for their partner’s rude, violent, insensitive, arrogant and general mean-spirited behaviors that I’m a bit shell-shocked from them.  Below are several real life examples I’ve heard, seen or experienced over the years.  Although names and identifiable details have been changed, the stories are […]

RELATIONSHIPS AND THE LIES WE TELL OURSELVES—AND OUR FRIENDS: SOMETIMES THE TRUTH IS THAT HE REALLY ISN’T THAT INTO YOU

I just watched the movie “He’s Just Not That Into You” and thought so many of the messages were incredibly accurate.  It was funny to hear all the excuses women give each other to explain men’s behavior.  It was also sad to see and hear what we do and say to one another in an […]