When Change Seems Impossible, Try This

Most people who feel stuck try to solve their problems in the same way—they largely focus their time and attention on trying to change the other person. More times than not, they complain, yell, scream, plead, shut down, defend, rationalize and essentially do whatever they can to get the other person to “see the light.” […]

Saving Your Marriage is Easier Before Your Wife Asks for a Divorce

My most popular blog post by far is, “The Dos and Don’ts of Saving Your Marriage” (http://lisamerlobooth.com/dos-donts-saving-marriage-winning-spouse-back/). Having received over 200 comments on this post alone, it’s clear that people are at a loss to know how to win their spouse back. More often than not, those comments are from men who tell me that […]

The Dos and Don’ts of Saving Your Marriage and Winning Your Spouse Back

Over the years I’ve had countless couples come into my office on the verge of divorce. In several of these couples, one partner is all but out the door while the other partner is fighting for one last chance to save the marriage. In some cases the partner who’s out the door says they’re no […]