The Emotional Walls with which We Surround Ourselves

Surrounding yourself with a wall will keep people away, leave you alone and make you difficult to be in relationship with. Leave the walling off to houses, not people. Examples of emotional walls that people keep around themselves include: •    A wall of words: A wall of words is going on and on in your […]

“But He’s a ‘Nice’ Guy” — Taking Off the Rose-colored Glasses

If I hear one more woman tell me her husband is a “nice guy” right after giving me example after example of how NOT “nice” he is, I’m going to scream. Women—P-L-E-A-S-E—stop telling yourself what a nice guy your husband is after he rages at you, makes fun of you, calls you names, lies, cheats, […]

Self-Talk Determines Life Experience—Master it.

Ten Things We Tell Ourselves That Keep Us Down (Part I) As we all know, sometimes we can be our own worst enemy. This is particularly true about the way we think and the way we talk to ourselves. If you want to make life a bit easier for yourself, pay attention to the way […]