Note from Lisa: Here is one of my earliest tips for you to enjoy! “Avoiding issues will not make them go away. Instead, it provides the fertilizer that enables issues to grow. Don’t avoid” ~LMB Males and females alike seem to fall into the trap of wanting to avoid issues. The more difficult the issue, the more […]
The Importance of Slowing Down Before You React
“Just because someone says something doesn’t make it so. Take the time to check it out; rather than reactively acting out.” ~LMB People say all sorts of things for all kinds of reasons. Some things are true, some things aren’t, and others are somewhere in between. Your job is to take the time to figure […]
Dare to Be Honest About the Full Picture, Not the Softened Version
“Pretending something is better than it is will not make it better. Dare to be honest about the full picture, not the softened version.” ~LMB I’m often surprised by how many couples come into my office saying, “Things are pretty good, we just need to communicate better,” only to find that things aren’t good at […]