“Support is about being there for others in the way they want you to be, not in the way you think they should want you to be. Some things are not about you.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth A key component in support is the ability to step outside of your story and into the other person’s. Stepping outside […]
Great Relationships Feel Safe To Come Home To
“Safety is a pre-requisite for great relationships. Be safe to come home to–always.” ~LMB Great relationships feel good to come home to. They are the bomb shelter that protects you from the outside storms. This is as true in times of conflict as it is in times of peace. Most people know that it’s not okay […]
Five Characteristics That Make A Great Partner
After working with hundreds of couples over the years, I’ve noticed key characteristics that are, almost without exception, present in healthy relationships. These characteristics are prevalent in both partners in any healthy partnership. Read over this list and rate yourself on each of these traits. If you don’t pass the test—don’t even bother looking at […]