“Frequently telling others what to do and how to do it is controlling. Control decimates relationships.” ~LMB Are you frequently critiquing the looks, actions, and words, of those around you? When others do things for you, do you repeatedly tell them how they could’ve done it better? Do you find yourself often complaining about what others […]
The 5 Most Common Edges (Part II)
As I wrote last week, our “edge” is that relationally-dysfunctional move we do in times of stress or conflict—when we are reactive rather than mindful. Last week I spoke about defensiveness and acting passive-aggressive (https://lisamerlobooth.com/5-common-edges-part/. Below are the remaining three most common edges: 1. Rage: Raging shows up as any or all of the following: […]
The Curse and Seduction of Being Right
Many people struggle with the curse of being right. When people struggle with being right it feels as if you’re constantly in an argument about the “facts.” Sometimes it can feel as if you’re talking with a lawyer instead of a friend or partner. For example, you might ask your partner to lower their voice […]