1. Make everything about you. No matter what is going on, constantly turn it around and talk about how it is affecting you. If your partner’s upset—talk about your upset. If your partner wants support for their dreams, whine about how they should be supporting your dreams. Who do they think they are, trying to […]
Ashley Madison Hacked: Not Getting Caught Doesn’t Justify Harmful Choices
Noel Biderman is the creator of Ashley Madison, the largest on-line cheating site for married men and women. He makes millions out of providing a one-stop affair site and rationalizes his business by saying, “If you eradicate Ashley Madison, you’re not going to eradicate infidelity. That allows me to sleep at night.” His wife […]
What’s Required From the Betraying Partner In Order To Heal From An Affair?
Over the years I have worked with hundreds of couples impacted by affairs and have found that there are 5 components that are necessary in the healing process. Without one of these components, the odds of healing are greatly reduced. Although many couples would love to simply forget about the affair and move on, in […]