Character shows up when no one’s watching. It shows up in the hard times not the easy ones. It rears its head in how one speaks about their enemies not their friends. It shows up in the boardroom when money is being lost not flowing. Character shines through in how a person speaks about their […]
Self-care and Relationships
Because today is my birthday, I thought I’d write about self-care. I’m happy to report that today has been a great self-care day. I was treated to breakfast and presents in bed (a family tradition), a day of shopping and a nice lunch. Aaah, I feel rested and much more able to be present for […]
Your Defensiveness Is Not Helping You or Your Relationship
I remember my supervisor talking many years ago about how frustrating it was for her when a person on her team was defensive about feedback. She was venting about how difficult it is to mentor people when every time you point out something you’d like them to work on they start explaining, rationalizing or defending […]