“Don’t ever use the behaviors of others as a measuring stick for your own.” ~LMB In a world rife with affairs, racism, sexism, extremism, etc., looking to others as a barometer for what’s okay and not okay is unlikely to steer you in the right direction. Married men and women are signing up on sites […]
Dare to Be Honest About the Full Picture, Not the Softened Version
“Pretending something is better than it is will not make it better. Dare to be honest about the full picture, not the softened version.” ~LMB I’m often surprised by how many couples come into my office saying, “Things are pretty good, we just need to communicate better,” only to find that things aren’t good at […]
Women: Listen to and Be Kind to…YOU
There are times when I can feel myself get incredibly frustrated with the choices so many women make about what they accept in their lives. Although I realize that many women (myself included) are raised from an early age to be nice, look good, not make waves, listen to other people (parents, fathers, men, those […]