Do you get offended, hurt, or feel attacked when others attempt to give you feedback?
Does it seem like when you give your partner, roommate, or *insert other person* feedback, they get easily annoyed, reactive, or angry?
This 5-week program will help you gain insight into defensiveness and provide you with the tools to make a positive change in your relationships and life.
It’s late November and you walk out on the front porch. You notice the pumpkin your partner carved for Halloween is on the floor rotting and oozing. You ask them to throw it away. Their response?
“Well, excuse me. I’ll get right on it. I didn’t mean to ruin your damn day.”
Your heart sinks, or your blood boils, and you quickly realize you should have just kept quiet.
My husband is so defensive. I’ve tried everything I know to help him hear my feedback but nothing works. Am I doing something wrong?
I have a really hard time taking in feedback and know this is a problem but it’s terribly difficult for me to be accountable… It definitely interferes with my relationships and my life.
I am in a young relationship with someone I love very much. We do have our problems, I have trust issues and so does he. But he has used the defensive shield already to avoid things that have really hurt the relationship we have.
I was married to a man for almost 20 years that used the shield of defensiveness. Anytime I expressed any kind of unhappiness or hurt he would turn it around to make me feel like I was too sensitive and that it was my fault in the first place. After a few years of this I began to question my sanity and my perceptions of just about everything. That led to shutting down and trying not to feel anything. It’s a horrible way to live your life.
Over the span of 5 modules, we’ll dive into what defensiveness is, how it shows up in your relationships, what it’s costing you, and concrete steps to take to start tackling it.
You’ll learn how to recognize the traits of defensiveness (in yourself and others) and walk away with lifelong skills to help you manage it.
How will I receive the content?
Our live interactive workshops will be hosted on Zoom. Recordings and all other program trainings, worksheets and templates will be delivered digitally through a password-protected members-only site. As soon as you enroll, you’ll be emailed your login information with a username and password.
When are the live interactive workshops?
What if I cannot attend the calls live?
All six of our interactive workshops will be recorded and added to the member's area for you to watch or revisit within 24 hours of the live call.
When will the five modules be released?
Are payment plans available?
Yes! You can choose a one-time payment today or the payment plan. The payment plan is two payments: one payment of 50% today and the second payment of 50% will be automatically charged 21 days later.
What if I want to attend with my partner?
You are very welcome to join as a couple. When enrolling two people, please use the coupon code COUPLE at checkout for a discount of 25% off.
When is the deadline to register?
The last day to register for this course is our start date, Thursday, September 22, 2022.
Do I have to be in a relationship to benefit from this course?
No, this course is for anyone who struggles with defensiveness in themselves or responding to defensiveness in others.
What if I want to cancel and get a refund?
Should you decide the program is not for you within the first 7 days, we will grant a refund to your credit card less any incurred payment processing fees.