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Liberty Isn't Liberty If It Only Belongs to Some "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." - The...
Healthy Relationships Require Embracing Differences, Not Erasing Them
“The work in healthy relationships is pushing yourself to appreciate, learn from, and embrace differences, not erase them.” - Lisa Merlo-booth Recognizing and embracing people for who they are is a powerful act of humanity, love, and acceptance. However,...
Your Most Important Relationships Aren’t With Your Customers
The culture shift that changes everything “Culture lives and dies in how we do relationships” - Lisa Merlo-booth The state of any team culture rests on the relationships of its members. Sadly, though, far too many leaders demand that their employees build excellent...
Honest Conversations: Why are they so damn hard?!
What’s really behind the conversations you keep not having? “Can’t we all just keep things surface-level and go our own way if things don’t work out?” - Lisa Merlo-booth Why is it easier to fire someone or end a relationship than it is to tell your best friend they...
Conflict is Not the Problem
The Differentiator Between Thriving and Struggling Relationships “If neither the content nor the frequency of conflict destroys relationships, what does?” - Lisa Merlo-booth The healthiest of relationships have conflict—sometimes even daily. In fact, in the best of...
Accountability: A Lost Art
When bosses bully, everyone pays. Here's what we're not saying out loud. “Silence in response to poor treatment is not neutral — it's permission.” - Lisa Merlo-booth Accountability is dying. And we are watching it happen in real time. Between the...
Why Your Explanations Aren’t Repairing Relationship Conflict
“Explaining your actions does not negate the impact of those actions. Don’t confuse an explanation with accountability and repair.” - Lisa Merlo-booth Explaining why you did what you did is not taking responsibility for it. When your actions upset someone, your job...
We Teach People How To Treat Us
"You can’t change your partner. However, you can change what you put up with from your partner.” - Lisa Merlo-booth We teach people how to treat us; we do this with our words, our actions, and even our silence. If we choose to stay in a conversation while someone is...
What Happened to Us?
Distance doesn't announce itself. It accumulates. "Keep your finger on the pulse today so tomorrow you don’t ask yourself, 'What happened to us?'” - Lisa Merlo-booth A common complaint I hear from couples is that they feel distant. Overall, things are okay – no big...
It’s Not enough to Be a Good Man Anymore
20,000 Videos. Not One Man Said Stop “Men and women alike are being harmed by a system that keeps them on oppositesides. Men and women uniting together is the only way humanity wins." Lisa Merlo-booth Nearly every woman in the world walks through the world aware of...
Your Boss’s Rage is Not About You
What every employee needs to know and do Have you ever had a boss who managed through intimidation, anger, and volatility? The kind of boss who had zero control of their emotions. Every time you or an employee made a mistake, the boss would blast you with a new tirade...
When Helping Isn’t Helping
"Confusing enabling with helping hurts everyone — every time." Lisa Merlo-Booth People feel good when they have a sense of mastery over their life. Taking care of life's everyday challenges helps you feel a sense of accomplishment, pride, and confidence that you can...
Workplace Incivility: Why Ignoring Disrespect at Work Makes It Worse
"Inherent in your silence is acceptance. Don’t silence." Lisa Merlo-Booth Workplace incivility is taking a staggering toll on employees and companies alike: U.S. workers experience 212 million acts of incivility every single day. 57% of employees say...
Trust: Are You Building or Breaking It?
"When trust is broken, the hurt must be healed — and going forward, trust must be built, not given." Lisa Merlo-Booth Some people trust quickly, others are slow to open up, and many fall somewhere in between. But regardless of where you land on that spectrum, once...
The Loop Nobody Talks About: Emotional Fragility, Men, and the Culture That Feeds It
"Silencing to the poor behavior of boys and men creates emotionally fragile men. Don’t coddle." Lisa Merlo-Booth The Alexander brothers didn’t become who they are overnight. Monday, March 9, 2026, all three –– Tal, Oren, and Alon Alexander –– were found guilty...