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A New Trend and Its Unspoken Consequences

A New Trend and Its Unspoken Consequences

May 5, 2025 | Changing Me, Changes We, Defensiveness, Radically New Relationships

“When you own your mistakes, repair harm, and stay connected to your impact, you become unshakeable.” ~LMB Everywhere I look these days—from spouses to bosses to world leaders—I see people doubling down on bad behavior. Defending, justifying, and...
How to Take In Critical Feedback Without Getting Defensive

How to Take In Critical Feedback Without Getting Defensive

Apr 28, 2025 | Defensiveness, Radically New Relationships

Taking in critical feedback—without defensiveness—is a superpower. ~LMB A fascinating thing about skillfully managing conflict is that it leaves both parties feeling more connected rather than less. Even when you feel hurt by someone, if they can acknowledge the hurt...
How to Cultivate Compassion for Healthier Relationships

How to Cultivate Compassion for Healthier Relationships

Feb 24, 2025 | Changes We, Changing Me, Radically New Culture, Radically New Relationships, Self Empowerment

“Compassion fosters relationships and caring nations. Extend it beyond your circle.” ~LMB The greatest need for human beings is the need for love and belonging. Compassion is vital to getting these needs met. Compassion allows you to connect with the experiences of...
Why Healthy Relationships Require Emotional Safety, Not Outdated Paradigms

Why Healthy Relationships Require Emotional Safety, Not Outdated Paradigms

Feb 10, 2025 | Accountability, Radically New Relationships

“Healthy relationships provide comfort and respite from life’s inevitable storms; Be the respite, not the storm.” ~LMB The closest relationships in your life should be those where you consistently feel emotionally, energetically, and physically safe—no...
The Cost of Lies in Relationships

The Cost of Lies in Relationships

Jan 20, 2025 | Accountability, Conflict and Difficult Conversations, Radically New Relationships, Romantic Relationships

“Lies undermine the safety of relationships, damaging the foundation of every relationship and culture.” ~LMB A core pillar for creating healthy relationships and cultures is Uncompromising Safety. Safety builds or breaks down trust. A key aspect of safety is honesty....
The Burden of Unconditional Forgiveness

The Burden of Unconditional Forgiveness

Jan 6, 2025 | Accountability, Conflict and Difficult Conversations, People Pleasing, Radically New Relationships

“The burden of forgiveness should lie with the one causing the harm. Earn forgiveness; do not demand it.” ~LMB There is immense societal pressure to “forgive” others—especially those who have caused the most harm. What you rarely hear, however, is the expectation that...
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