I’ve worked with many couples whose relationships have been impacted by affairs. Nine times out of ten the person having the affair says s/he wasn’t looking for it to happen. The problem is s/he also wasn’t safe guarding from it happening. On the extreme, I’ve watched individuals who send a thousand signals out to the […]
AFFAIRS AND INTEROGATIONS
A common issue with couples impacted by affairs is how many details to share or not share. Often the partner who was cheated on has this insatiable need to know all the details. S/he wants to know how often, how good and how different the sex was. Did it happen in the couples’ bed? If […]
INTERNET PORNOGRAPHY AND RELATIONSHIPS
It seems to me there has been a huge increase in the prevalence of sex addiction of late. The Internet has opened doors to some amazing things and some potentially damaging things. One of the most damaging I have seen is Internet porn. I have worked with many couples where Internet porn has become a […]