I’ve worked with many couples over the years impacted by affairs. Inevitably the partner who was cheated on wants to know all the details; in particular, they want to know if their partner had sex with this person. So what’s the right answer? Do you tell your partner you did and run the risk of […]
RELATIONSHIP TRUISM: TRUST CAN TAKE A MOMENT TO BREAK AND A LIFETIME TO GET BACK
One of the most common things I see in my work with couples is a breach of trust. This breach can take the form of an affair, a hidden addiction, repetitive lies, misrepresentations of the facts (over and over again), broken promises etc. The fact that this occurs frequently may not be a surprise to […]
“I WASN’T GETTING MY NEEDS MET IN MY MARRIAGE SO I GOT THEM MET OUTSIDE IT”: IS AN AFFAIR EVER JUSTIFIED?
After working with countless couples impacted by affairs, I’d like to clear up a common misunderstanding. The notion that it’s okay to go outside of your marriage to get your emotional and sexual needs met because they’re not getting met in the marriage…is a crazy notion. Put another way, there is no excuse, justification, or […]
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