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Pay Attention to How You Manage Conflict in Your Home, Work, and World

Pay Attention to How You Manage Conflict in Your Home, Work, and World

Oct 7, 2024 | Conflict and Difficult Conversations, Radically New Culture, Radically New Relationships

“Managing conflict can build connection or destroy it; be sure it’s building it.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth Managing feedback and conflict is a tremendous problem for many people today. This struggle makes sense, given that few role models exemplify this...
Is This Pattern Making Your Problems Worse?

Is This Pattern Making Your Problems Worse?

Sep 23, 2024 | Accountability, Radically New Culture, Radically New Relationships

“Explaining why you did something doesn’t erase the impact, repair the hurt, or change the outcome.” ~LMB Have you fallen into the habit of explaining your actions rather than repairing the hurt those actions caused? Do any of these responses sound...
How Do You Handle Conflict?

How Do You Handle Conflict?

Sep 16, 2024 | Accountability, Conflict and Difficult Conversations, Radically New Relationships

“How you handle the conflicts in your life dramatically affects the quality of your life.” ~ LMB Conflict often has a bad rap. Countless people see disputes as destroyers of relationships—at home, in the office, and in the world. Couples fear that conflict...
True Character is Revealed in Conflict

True Character is Revealed in Conflict

Sep 9, 2024 | Conflict and Difficult Conversations, Radically New Relationships

“Don’t be fooled by words or the occasional good deed—even serial killers have kind moments.” ~LMB Character is revealed in how a person treats, speaks to, and talks about those they dislike, struggle with, or have conflict with. True character...
Break the Cycle: Stop Reactive Complaining

Break the Cycle: Stop Reactive Complaining

Aug 19, 2024 | Changing Me, Changes We, Communication, Radically New Relationships, Relationships

“Reactive complaining can strain even the strongest relationships.” ~LMB Reactive complaining happens when someone voices a concern, and instead of addressing it, you reflexively bring up a complaint of your own. For example: Sally: Honey, can you please...
Why Silencing Yourself Won’t Save Your Relationship

Why Silencing Yourself Won’t Save Your Relationship

Aug 5, 2024 | Changing Me, Changes We, Communication, People Pleasing, Radically New Relationships

“Silencing to save your marriage won’t save your marriage.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth One of the most common complaints I hear from women is that they’re afraid to be honest with their spouse about conflict of any kind. They constantly walk on eggshells around...
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