Is This Pattern Making Your Problems Worse?

Is This Pattern Making Your Problems Worse?

“Explaining why you did something doesn’t erase the impact, repair the hurt, or change the outcome.” ~LMB Have you fallen into the habit of explaining your actions rather than repairing the hurt those actions caused? Do any of these responses sound...
Slow Down to Soak in the Gifts of the Holiday Season

Slow Down to Soak in the Gifts of the Holiday Season

“Focusing on the stress of the holiday season blinds you to the gifts. Don’t be blinded.” ~LMB  Holidays can be a tremendous trigger for stress. You’re worried about getting everything done, having family members get along, cooking a great meal, etc....
Understanding Relationship Complaints: Listen the First Time

Understanding Relationship Complaints: Listen the First Time

“When your partner complains about a pattern of behavior you do, listen, the first time.” ~LMB The key way out of a struggling relationship is finding the courage to change in the area your partner has been asking you to change for years. Too many people...
Choosing Wisely: The Most Important Gift to Your Future Self

Choosing Wisely: The Most Important Gift to Your Future Self

“Choosing wisely means valuing your future enough to walk away from what threatens it.” ~LMB Choosing your life partner is one of the most critical decisions you will ever make. This choice has the potential to impact every day of your life going forward,...