My first question is what is he doing on the Internet? Is he doing work, looking at pornography, in chat rooms, playing video games, IM’ing someone or …? What’s keeping his attention? It is becoming more and more common for people to come home from work, say hello and then go straight to the computer […]
NEGOTIATING DIFFERENCES
Negotiating differences requires that we come from a why position rather than a what position. When we focus on what we want rather than why we want it, we are stuck with only two solutions, yours and mine. If we choose either of these, one of us wins and one of us loses. This is […]
CAN I, AND/OR SHOULD I, TRUST AFTER AN AFFAIR?
Affairs inevitably shake the foundation of relationships, and always lead to a breach of trust. If your partner has had an affair, during your relationship, you have probably wondered two things: 1. Will you ever be able to trust your partner again and 2. If you can trust your partner again — should you? The […]