Our “edge” is that relationally dysfunctional move we do (when we are not at our best) in times of stress or conflict. Donald Trump, for example, repeatedly goes on the offensive when someone challenges him on his actions. Therefore, one of Trump’s edges is defensiveness, and, in particular, it’s defensively going on the offensive (he […]
Getting Unstuck in Life and Relationships
“Leap and the net shall appear.” — John Burroughs Change is often scary. In fact, it can be so scary that people feel paralyzed by the thought of it. Even when things are going poorly in a person’s life and they know they need to take steps to change things, they can be rendered helpless. […]