“Great relationships feel good to come home to.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth Countless people wonder if the relationship they’re in is the “right” one. They ask themselves questions like: Did they choose the “right” person? Do they make enough money? Are they motivated enough? Do they have the potential to be successful? Are they attractive, kind, funny, […]
Do You Struggle With Issues Of Control?
“Frequently telling others what to do and how to do it is controlling. Control decimates relationships.” ~LMB Are you frequently critiquing the looks, actions, and words, of those around you? When others do things for you, do you repeatedly tell them how they could’ve done it better? Do you find yourself often complaining about what others […]
Moving from Defensiveness to Accountability
“Responding to someone’s upset by defending, explaining, or minimizing is a bad move every time. Change your moves.” ~LMB Defending your actions seems to have become the new “in” thing to do in relationships these days. The problem, however, is that defensiveness absolutely kills relationships. One of the most common struggles individuals have is defensiveness. If […]