“Don’t ever use the behaviors of others as a measuring stick for your own.” ~LMB In a world rife with affairs, racism, sexism, extremism, etc., looking to others as a barometer for what’s okay and not okay is unlikely to steer you in the right direction. Married men and women are signing up on sites […]
Take Radical Responsibility for Your Life and Relationships
“Blaming your reactions, choices, or life circumstances on others is a disempowering move. Take radical responsibility for your life and relationships.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth Blaming others for your anger, upset, situation, etc., is going to keep you stuck. The more you convince yourself that others ‘make’ you mad, ruined your life, pushed you into an affair, or […]
Keep Your Focus on You and Watch Your World Change
Time and again I watch men and women constantly pointing their fingers at the other person. They spend all their time and energy trying to change what the other person is doing. Both men and women believe that if the other person would just be kinder, talk more, stop raging, complaining, controlling or (fill in […]