“Blaming your reactions, choices, or life circumstances on others is a disempowering move. Take radical responsibility for your life and relationships.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth Blaming others for your anger, upset, situation, etc., is going to keep you stuck. The more you convince yourself that others ‘make’ you mad, ruined your life, pushed you into an affair, or […]
How to Courageously Own Your Mistakes
“Justifying, minimizing, or defending your actions, turns small mistakes into big problems. Repair the other person’s pain rather than protecting your ego.” ~LMB If a friend, family member, lover, or colleague comes to you in a place of upset about something you did, it’s your job to do what you can to help them. It’s not […]
Keep Your Focus on You and Watch Your World Change
Time and again I watch men and women constantly pointing their fingers at the other person. They spend all their time and energy trying to change what the other person is doing. Both men and women believe that if the other person would just be kinder, talk more, stop raging, complaining, controlling or (fill in […]