Aug 26, 2008
Taking care of your is so vital to a healthy, fulfilling life that professionals, lay people, clergy, and even business organizations sing its praises. The airlines stress it (put the oxygen mask on yourself first, then the children), therapists give it as...
Aug 12, 2008
People often talk about how unhappy they are in their relationships. They complain about their poor sex life, lack of connection, mistreatment, their partner’s habits, and so on. They wish things would change and say they are willing to do anything to...
Jun 24, 2008
It seems that as we get older, we get more and more stuck in our ways. For example, if I get really upset at my husband I tend to get quiet and stew. I do this every time I’m really triggered and acting unhealthy (which is not that often of courseJ). The point is I...
Jun 17, 2008
Samantha asked her mother to please pick her up at school on time today since she has practice across town right after school. Her mother immediately became defensive and started explaining all the reasons she’s late. She told her daughter if she couldn’t handle her...
May 16, 2008
A NOTE TO WOMEN In my previous post I wrote about men feeling as though they can never do anything good enough for their partners. My suggestion was for them to make sure that when they say they’re going to do something that they not only actually do it, but they...
May 6, 2008
Anger is a common problem for many people in relationships, and it is toxic when not controlled. Individuals are struggling with it, children are emulating it, and couples are separating because of it. If you’re interested in a mutually energizing relationship, then...
