“Telling your spouse what you don’t like about them—when they are ready to walk out of the marriage—is a bad move every time.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth Contrary to popular opinion, not all marital problems are 50-50. Often, one spouse’s behaviors are far more challenging to live with than the other’s, and the key “contribution” to the […]
How To Enhance Intimacy With Communication
“Intimacy is squashed or enhanced by communication. Be sure your communication enhances rather than squashes.” ~LMB Excellent communication, at its core, is compassionate. Whether you are arguing, celebrating, or only talking, how you do any of these will either bring you closer to others or push you further apart. You decide. Typical distancing moves include: Dismissing: […]
Ten Signs That You’re Too Critical
A common complaint I hear about women (usually) is that they are critical — particularly mothers. Unfortunately when women are critical and/or perfectionistic, their loved ones grow tired of their negativity. It’s very tough to be around someone who is constantly remarking about your flaws. Many people who struggle with being critical have no idea […]