“Dismissing or minimizing someone’s feelings, ideas, or experiences, because you don’t feel the same, is arrogant and harmful to relationships. Acknowledge and support; don’t dismiss.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth When it comes to relationships, the litmus test regarding what is essential or relevant to listen to is humanity, not agreement. Too many people run the thoughts and […]
How To Enhance Intimacy With Communication
“Intimacy is squashed or enhanced by communication. Be sure your communication enhances rather than squashes.” ~LMB Excellent communication, at its core, is compassionate. Whether you are arguing, celebrating, or only talking, how you do any of these will either bring you closer to others or push you further apart. You decide. Typical distancing moves include: Dismissing: […]
Dismissiveness: Remove These 5 Statements from Your Communication
When it comes to upsets and conflict, one of the worst things you can do is respond in a way that is dismissive or minimizing. The last thing in the world people want to hear is you telling them their upset isn’t really a problem. That response is not calming. It won’t reassure them. And […]