Radically New Relationships: Communication Mastery

Radically New Relationships: Communication Mastery

“Communication mastery can only happen when you focus on the process, not the content.” ~LMB Often, when I stress to clients the importance of being calm, grounded, and respectful when speaking to one another, their knee-jerk response is some version of,...
The Unavoidable Consequences of Treating Others Poorly

The Unavoidable Consequences of Treating Others Poorly

“You don’t get to treat others poorly without consequences for those choices. Even denial won’t save you from the consequences of your actions.” LMB We live in a world where more and more people think they can treat others however they want without any consequences....
The Hidden Dangers of Avoiding Conflict in Your Relationship

The Hidden Dangers of Avoiding Conflict in Your Relationship

“Avoiding coming home is a critical sign that you need to fix what’s going on at home.” ~LMB Running from problems doesn’t make them disappear; it creates greater upset and more significant problems. If you’re working late at the office...
Change the Way You View Feedback

Change the Way You View Feedback

“Struggling with conflict has little to do with the content you are talking about and almost everything to do with how you discuss that content.” ~LMB When I tell my clients that conflict is an opportunity and feedback is a gift, they often respond with...
Respond to Accountability with Appreciation

Respond to Accountability with Appreciation

“Accountability is courageous; take the time to acknowledge it when it comes your way.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth When someone in your life acknowledges their behaviors, admits their mistakes, and commits to changing their actions in the future, your job is to...