The Power of Staying Calm: Turning Anger into Inner Strength

The Power of Staying Calm: Turning Anger into Inner Strength

“Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars… Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.” ~ Martin Luther King Jr. Losing your cool when life throws you a curve ball will make an already...

Make room for your “existential moment”

“I came to the conclusion that there is an existential moment in your life when you must decide to speak for yourself; nobody else can speak for you.” Martin Luther King Countless people silence their voices in their most important relationships out of fear of the...
Is this frustrating behavior playing out in your relationship?

Is this frustrating behavior playing out in your relationship?

“Shifting from explaining, minimizing, or justifying your actions to owning their impact can completely change the course of your relationship.” ~LMB There are few things more frustrating, disappointing, or infuriating than constantly having your upsets...
The Truth About Being the ‘Good Guy’

The Truth About Being the ‘Good Guy’

“Just because you believe you’re a “good guy” doesn’t mean you’re a good guy.” ~LMB  I used to get caught off guard when men in my office would nonchalantly defend their emotional abuse of their wives. It’s quite an interesting phenomenon to watch because the...
You Do What You Do Because You Choose To; Choose Wisely

You Do What You Do Because You Choose To; Choose Wisely

“You do what you do because you choose to; choose wisely.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth Do you ever tell yourself that you do what you do because others make you? Perhaps you think you yell because your partner doesn’t listen, or you shut down because your partner...
The Hidden Dangers of Avoiding Conflict in Your Relationship

The Hidden Dangers of Avoiding Conflict in Your Relationship

“Avoiding coming home is a critical sign that you need to fix what’s going on at home.” ~LMB Running from problems doesn’t make them disappear; it creates greater upset and more significant problems. If you’re working late at the office...