Nov 14, 2011
It’s not at all uncommon for women (and people in general) to want to exact revenge on someone in their life who has “wronged” them. If their husband had an affair, women often want to make him pay. If they’re too scared of losing him as a result of their revenge or...
Sep 26, 2011
Last week I wrote a post about the difficulty of getting unstuck in life and relationships. Although many people know they need to make a change, few actually take steps to do so. Below is a quick cheat sheet to getting unstuck. If you’re unhappy in your job,...
Sep 21, 2011
“Leap and the net shall appear.” — John Burroughs Change is often scary. In fact, it can be so scary that people feel paralyzed by the thought of it. Even when things are going poorly in a person’s life and they know they need to take steps to...
Sep 2, 2011
Relationships often struggle when one of the partners is passive-aggressive. Trust me, I know. When I was first married, I used to struggle with being passive-aggressive and I know it was not easy for my husband to deal with. I’d like to say that now I’m perfect and...
Aug 8, 2011
When it comes to disagreements, too many people are so invested in their story that they end up putting up a figurative wall that blocks solution. Below are 5 tips to let down your walls and actually engage in a healthy conversation. 1. Listen to the other...
Jun 23, 2011
A common union I see in couples is a very strong woman partnered with a fairly passive man. The men often say their partners are overbearing, controlling, intense, critical and never satisfied. The women say the men don’t talk, are walled off, often...
