The Real Reason Relationships End: It’s Not Just One Straw

The Real Reason Relationships End: It’s Not Just One Straw

“In relationships, the “straw that breaks the camel’s back” is often not a single event—it’s the unending, repetitive pattern of thousands of similar “straws” playing out over the years.” ~LMB In your marriage, you may...
Uncompromising Safety Is a Prerequisite for True Intimacy

Uncompromising Safety Is a Prerequisite for True Intimacy

“Those who disrespect you with their mouth don’t deserve your ear.” ― Curtis Tyrone Jones Radically New Relationships are safe relationships; there’s no intimidation, walking on eggshells, shaming, or fear of retaliation/rage/emotional abuse. Your home is...
Saving Your Marriage Requires Changing the Behaviors That Caused Its Downfall

Is this frustrating behavior playing out in your relationship?

“Shifting from explaining, minimizing, or justifying your actions to owning their impact can completely change the course of your relationship.” ~LMB There are few things more frustrating, disappointing, or infuriating than constantly having your upsets...
Do you feel great to be around?

Do you feel great to be around?

“Stay close to anything that makes you glad you are alive.” — Hafez Become someone who makes those around you feel good about themselves. Regarding relationships, this quote reminds me of the importance of the acronym KISS—Keep It Simple ‘Silly’ (the last ‘S’ is...