Withdrawal…A Death Sentence to Many Relationships

One of the best predictors of divorce is…withdrawal.  Being that I, myself, am a recovered withdrawer, imagine my surprise when I first found this out. Yikes!  I remember years ago when my husband and I would get mad about something and I would clam up and shut down. ...

Healthy Relationships: Love is in the action not the thought

How many times have you heard someone say they’re not very affectionate, not much of a “feelings” person, or not one to wear their heart on their sleeve etc…?  I hear these statements all the time and they’re all cop outs.  I’ve heard both men and women use these...

Domestic Violence: The Readers Speak Out

I’ve received several comments following my last post on domestic violence and wanted to address some of them.  FIrst and foremost I want to thank all my readers for taking the time to write in on this topic.  I also want to thank several of you for reminding me...

Your Relationship or Your Life? No Relationship is Worth Your Life

This week’s headlines regarding Nancy Cooper’s murder has led me to write this post. Nancy was the mother of two beautiful little girls who are now left to deal with one of the most traumatizing, life altering adversities anyone could ever experience.  Whether her...