Jan 18, 2008
On any given day any one of us can react in a split second to annoying events, our partner’s foibles, life circumstances, etc. In fact, many of us have a black belt in reactivity which leads into all sorts of trouble, regrets, and negative consequences. Reacting is a...
Jan 2, 2008
This past summer four of us, including myself and Terry Real, sat in a room together for several days and created an incredibly powerful workshop for parents. We then piloted the workshop in various cities, listened to feedback from participants, and subsequently fine...
Dec 14, 2007
Women speak about miserable relationships and hopeless feelings all the time. They report that their partners have no interest in counseling, are under a lot of stress, and can’t handle more right now. Women can’t push or demand too much from the men because it may...
Oct 10, 2007
I was just reading a blog about anger management. The blog is: http://www.daybreakservices.com/blog/ For those of you who struggle with anger, you may want to check this blog out. It has a lot of helpful tips to help control your anger and the writing is short and...
Sep 25, 2007
For those of you who are satisfied in your relationship and actually enjoy coming home to your partner, here’s a quick tip to keep it going: Don’t take any of the positive things for granted. Too often we can forget to give thanks for our blessings. We need to take...
Sep 20, 2007
Over the years I’ve learned to define my own rules for relationships based on what I felt was right for me and respectful to those around me. Here are the ten top ones I do my best to live by. I hope you find these as helpful in your relationships as I’ve found them...