Aug 11, 2010
When it comes to being an effective communicator, it’s not just about what you say…it’s also about how you say it. Regardless of whether you’re talking to your boss, employee, child, lover or friend, if your energy is off, chances are you will not get the results...
Jul 30, 2010
I just heard another “relationship expert” telling women to learn to give men what they want. Too many “experts” encourage women to play games, figure out what men want and then make sure they give it to them. This is ludicrous advice and is the exact opposite of...
Jul 13, 2010
There is endless information written on men who are abusive, intimidating or controlling of their partners. There is much less written, however, about women who do the same. Over the years I have worked with many women who fell into this same pattern of rage and...
May 20, 2010
Too many couples have a third party creating problems in their relationship. That third party is alcohol. When alcohol is a source of stress in a relationship, it is typically because one partner thinks the other partner either drinks too much or is no fun to be...
May 13, 2010
A common complaint I hear about women (usually) is that they are critical — particularly mothers. Unfortunately when women are critical and/or perfectionistic, their loved ones grow tired of their negativity. It’s very tough to be around someone who is...
May 3, 2010
Because today is my birthday, I thought I’d write about self-care. I’m happy to report that today has been a great self-care day. I was treated to breakfast and presents in bed (a family tradition), a day of shopping and a nice lunch. Aaah, I feel rested and...
