Mar 31, 2011
I recently was reading an article from today.com about a dating site for cheaters (http://tinyurl.com/4gp944u) and was struck by how sickened I felt reading it. What was so sad, to me, were the stories about the people who are newly married, recently engaged or...
Nov 8, 2010
Many people do not purposefully leap into an affair. Typically they start as innocent conversations, cups of coffee or lunches with a friend or co-worker. Seldom are they a well thought out plan for deception. Unfortunately, the impact is the same regardless of...
Sep 17, 2010
In the world of relationship coaching and therapy, it’s fascinating how things seem to come in waves. The issue of the month may cycle from rage in men to rage in women to affairs to passive-aggression to dead marriages. Before I know it, I have several different...
Sep 13, 2010
Mistrust is a common problem in many relationships for many reasons: affairs, lies, jealousy, poor behavior etc. Once mistrust is present, it’s very difficult to get trust back. Without trust, many relationships won’t make it. If you would like to...
May 27, 2010
One man has been having an affair for several months. When his wife questioned him, he admitted to the affair and told her there was nothing she could do about it. He subsequently went away every weekend with his mistress with no shame or remorse. Upon his return...
Mar 26, 2010
The issue of trust comes up with many of the couples I work with. Some couples have been impacted by an affair, others by an overly-jealous partner, and others by unhealthy habits that would spark anyone’s mistrust radar. Other than the extreme jealous...
