A NOTE ABOUT AFFAIRS: REMORSE IS MANDATORY FOR HEALING TO OCCUR

I’ve been receiving e-mails from men regarding their partners having affairs.  The message to men is the same as it is for women: you deserve to be in a loving relationship with someone who treats you well.  If your partner has an affair, the only way to begin the...

FAMOUS PEOPLE AND AFFAIRS: THE LESSONS THEY’VE TAUGHT US

When it comes to extra-marital affairs, famous people are an endless source of learning.  Their mistakes have much to teach us.  If we pay attention, their affairs can save us from the same pain, humiliation and hurtful relationship moves they’ve had to...

AFFAIRS AND THE OTHER WOMAN: LIES OTHER WOMEN TELL THEMSELVES

With all the hype about Tiger Woods and the alleged other women, I thought I’d address affairs from a different angle.  Below are myths that many of the other women in the world believe.  While I understand how and why they believe these stories, let me be clear...

AFFAIRS—STOP EXCUSING THEM AND GET BACK IN INTEGRITY

I’m shocked by all the single people who get involved with married men and women.  What are you thinking?  Actually, why are you NOT thinking?  Unless the married person lied about his/her marital status…they are OFF LIMITS.  This is not only...

MAKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP AN AFFAIR-FREE ZONE

I continually get couples into my office following an affair, in the midst of an affair, on the brink of an affair or in the early stages of a potential affair. These affairs or potential affairs are…killing marriages. Those of us in committed relationships need to...