Apr 3, 2023
“Struggling with conflict has little to do with the content you are talking about and almost everything to do with how you discuss that content.” ~LMB When I tell my clients that conflict is an opportunity and feedback is a gift, they often respond with...
Feb 9, 2010
As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world — that is the myth of the atomic age — as in being able to remake ourselves.GhandiOne of the biggest obstacles to transforming relationships is an individual’s endless...
Jul 14, 2009
While on vacation this past week, I took some time out to watch the world. I watched my own family, my friend’s family, workers, vacationers, children and adults. One thing that struck me was the amount of judging being done by people across the board...
Apr 6, 2009
This has been an interesting week for me professionally. Have you ever had one of those weeks in which the same theme keeps coming into your life again and again? If you haven’t, believe me it’s a weird phenomenon. The theme this week: verbal and...
Mar 11, 2009
Recently, while at a workshop with my long time mentor Terry Real, I was struck by his comment: “It is co-dependant when you back away from functional behaviors because of fear of your partner’s dysfunctional behavior.” I immediately started to chuckle...
Mar 4, 2009
“As to diseases, Make a habit of two things— To help, or at least do no harm.” Hippocrates, The Epidemics I’m often struck by the way so many of us treat our loved ones compared to how we treat strangers on the street or acquaintances. ...
