Mar 1, 2009
I receive e-mails, blog comments, and inquiries from women and men all the time describing miserable relationships and poor treatment. For example: * “I have 5 kids by my husband and he has two with another woman. I have reason to...
Dec 19, 2008
Recently, my husband and I had a very interesting conversation about something that was going on in our relationship. Although I’m a bit embarrassed to share it, I realize it is a great learning opportunity for my readers…(as I write this I will continue to...
Jun 24, 2008
It seems that as we get older, we get more and more stuck in our ways. For example, if I get really upset at my husband I tend to get quiet and stew. I do this every time I’m really triggered and acting unhealthy (which is not that often of courseJ). ...
May 11, 2008
A NOTE TO MEN… One of the most common complaints I hear from men is they can’t do anything right. They swear that no matter what they do–even if they do exactly what their partner asked them to do–it’s not good enough. They are...
Apr 4, 2008
Many women I work with struggle with wanting a different relationship yet not wanting to stand up to their partners to get one. They just wish that their partners would step up and be more relational on their own. I can’t help but think how I would love...
Feb 20, 2008
In order to get the relationship you want, you must be willing to work for it. The best way I know to do this is to apply the relationship one-two punch: Ask for nothing more than you’re willing to give in relationships. Accept nothing less. Often in couples...
