Oct 10, 2007
I was just reading a blog about anger management. The blog is: http://www.daybreakservices.com/blog/ For those of you who struggle with anger, you may want to check this blog out. It has a lot of helpful tips to help control your anger and the writing is short and...
Jul 9, 2007
Here are some helpful tips to keep you on track when your partner is upset about something you did and wants you to listen: • Listen to understand where your partner is coming from. Your job is to put yourself in your partner’s shoes for a moment and get a clear...
Jul 9, 2007
Here are some helpful tips to keep you on track when your partner is upset about something you did and wants you to listen: • Listen to understand where your partner is coming from. Your job is to put yourself in your partner’s shoes for a moment and get a clear...
Jun 15, 2007
Being a safe listener is necessary for true intimacy to occur. One way to think of intimacy is “Into–me-you-see”; it is the sharing of two individuals about themselves. If one or both partners use what is shared, against the other person, it’s not safe to share. If...
Jun 15, 2007
Being a safe listener is necessary for true intimacy to occur. One way to think of intimacy is “Into–me-you-see”; it is the sharing of two individuals about themselves. If one or both partners use what is shared, against the other person, it’s not safe to share. If...
May 14, 2007
A few posts ago I wrote about withdrawal in relationships and received a comment asking me what to do when you are on the receiving end of withdrawal. In other words, what is a healthy response to a partner’s unhealthy choice to withdraw? Let me be clear that the type...
