May 11, 2008
A NOTE TO MEN… One of the most common complaints I hear from men is they can’t do anything right. They swear that no matter what they do–even if they do exactly what their partner asked them to do–it’s not good enough. They are adamant that their...
May 6, 2008
Anger is a common problem for many people in relationships, and it is toxic when not controlled. Individuals are struggling with it, children are emulating it, and couples are separating because of it. If you’re interested in a mutually energizing relationship, then...
Apr 23, 2008
Over the years I’ve heard many excuses for partners treating each other in emotionally abusive ways. When I say emotionally abusive, what I mean is: calling your partner names, swearing at him/her, yelling or screaming at your partner, belittling him/her, harshly...
Apr 16, 2008
• Stacey’s son throws a temper tantrum every time he doesn’t get his way. Stacey responds by trying her best to placate her son and settle him down. She teaches her son that his tantrums work. • Steve’s wife often gets so angry and reactive when she doesn’t like...
Jan 18, 2008
On any given day any one of us can react in a split second to annoying events, our partner’s foibles, life circumstances, etc. In fact, many of us have a black belt in reactivity which leads into all sorts of trouble, regrets, and negative consequences. Reacting is a...
Dec 14, 2007
Women speak about miserable relationships and hopeless feelings all the time. They report that their partners have no interest in counseling, are under a lot of stress, and can’t handle more right now. Women can’t push or demand too much from the men because it may...
