Oct 9, 2006
I’ve worked with many couples whose relationships have been impacted by affairs. Nine times out of ten the person having the affair says s/he wasn’t looking for it to happen. The problem is s/he also wasn’t safe guarding from it happening. On the extreme, I’ve watched...
May 26, 2006
A common issue with couples impacted by affairs is how many details to share or not share. Often the partner who was cheated on has this insatiable need to know all the details. S/he wants to know how often, how good and how different the sex was. Did it happen in the...
May 11, 2006
It seems to me there has been a huge increase in the prevalence of sex addiction of late. The Internet has opened doors to some amazing things and some potentially damaging things. One of the most damaging I have seen is Internet porn. I have worked with many couples...
Feb 10, 2006
Affairs inevitably shake the foundation of relationships, and always lead to a breach of trust. If your partner has had an affair, during your relationship, you have probably wondered two things: 1. Will you ever be able to trust your partner again and 2. If you can...
Jan 25, 2006
REPAIRING TRUST AFTER AN AFFAIR I often hear individuals who have had affairs speaking to their partners, making comments like: “Am I ever going to live this down?” “It didn’t mean anything.” “It’s over with, would you let it go!” etc. The general theme is they want...
