Oct 20, 2006
This post is a very difficult one for me to write because it’s contrary to the standard message around abuse. So…before you read this post, if you are in, or have ever been in, an abusive relationship (either verbally or physically), please use your boundaries while...
Oct 2, 2006
I continue to see rage impacting more families than I care to report. I see it in many families I work with, as well as in families I know personally. In all the families, it takes its toll. Some people however, wouldn’t call what’s going on in their homes “rage”. In...
Sep 19, 2006
I often hear women complain about their partner’s lack of emotional connection, reluctance to share, or frequent withdrawal at home. They are often so angry about this that they can barely contain themselves. When I ask how they handle this, they often spit out a list...
Sep 19, 2006
I often hear women complain about their partner’s lack of emotional connection, reluctance to share, or frequent withdrawal at home. They are often so angry about this that they can barely contain themselves. When I ask how they handle this, they often spit out a list...
Sep 15, 2006
I was speaking with someone who was telling me that when he doesn’t do what he agreed to do, his coach questions him about his lack of integrity in his word. When I heard this it struck me how often we say or agree to things we don’t mean. In couples, this often leads...
Sep 8, 2006
I believe parenting is one of the most difficult jobs in the world. If you’re not a parent then you have no idea. If you are a parent then I’m betting you know exactly what I’m talking about. I remember when I used to work with families before I had children of my...
