Is this frustrating behavior playing out in your relationship?

Is this frustrating behavior playing out in your relationship?

“Shifting from explaining, minimizing, or justifying your actions to owning their impact can completely change the course of your relationship.” ~LMB There are few things more frustrating, disappointing, or infuriating than constantly having your upsets...
Do you feel great to be around?

Do you feel great to be around?

“Stay close to anything that makes you glad you are alive.” — Hafez Become someone who makes those around you feel good about themselves. Regarding relationships, this quote reminds me of the importance of the acronym KISS—Keep It Simple ‘Silly’ (the last ‘S’ is...
Mastering the Art of Support

Mastering the Art of Support

“Support is about being there for others in the way they want you to be, not in the way you think they should want you to be. Some things are not about you.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth A key component in support is the ability to step outside of your story and into...
Take an Honest Inventory of Your Relationships

Take an Honest Inventory of Your Relationships

“People want to spend time with those who feel good to be around. Be a bright light, not a black cloud.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth When clients were making bad choices in their lives and experiencing negative consequences, my mentor would often say, “If you...
This New Year, Raise the Bar in Your Relationship

This New Year, Raise the Bar in Your Relationship

“Creating healthy relationships is not rocket science: be kind, accountable, and supportive to others while holding others accountable to be the same towards you.” ~LMB This New Year, raise the bar in your relationship. Creating great relationships is not as difficult...