Feb 10, 2011
My last post talked about the first three steps to bringing sex back into your relationship. Once you’ve talked to your partner about bringing sex back into your relationship (see Part I) and you’ve scheduled the date, you’re next step is to start planning the...
Dec 7, 2010
There are many people going through the pain of divorce and breakup in our society today. Some have asked for the breakups, while others were blindsided by it. Most, however, struggle with the fallout of being alone. Below are the first five of 10 tips for getting...
Sep 22, 2010
1. Perform a random act of kindness–out of the goodness of your heart–with no expectation of them returning the favor. Do this throughout your relationship 2. Tell them you love them with your words. The saying that actions speak louder than words...
Jul 20, 2010
I often hear from women that their partners aren’t interested in what they have to say, talk very little and emotionally don’t offer much. When I check in with the men about this, the men often report that they’re different from the women and don’t need to talk as...
Jun 8, 2010
Many couples complain that they’ve lost the spark. They end up talking about what they’re not feeling, analyzing what they’re not feeling and questioning whether they will ever feel “it” again—at least feel “it” with one another. In my experience, we need to stop...
Jun 1, 2010
After working with hundreds of couples over the years, I’ve noticed key characteristics that are, almost without exception, present in healthy relationships. These characteristics are prevalent in both partners in any healthy partnership. Read over this list and...