“Safety is a pre-requisite for great relationships. Be safe to come home to–always.” ~LMB Great relationships feel good to come home to. They are the bomb shelter that protects you from the outside storms. This is as true in times of conflict as it is in times of peace. Most people know that it’s not okay […]
Men and Repair: “I Screwed Up!!! Now What?”
I receive many e-mails and comments on my blog from men asking me what to do after they’ve really messed things up in their relationship. Most of these “screw ups” have been a series of behaviors over time that eventually burned out their marriages or long-term relationships. Some men had affairs, while others were dismissive, […]
Saving Your Relationship Takes More Than Flowers
“Saving a relationship requires being accountable for your actions that harmed it in the first place.” ~LMB If your relationship is on the brink of a breakup, don’t turn to the traditional approaches to try and save it. Most people try to save their relationships via cards, flowers and attention. Although in some circumstances these […]