“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” ~ Albert Einstein A basic, foundational principle for every couple trying to recover from the brink of divorce is: If your partner is leaving you because of your actions, don’t keep doing the actions they are upset about. For example, if your wife is […]
Stop Defending! Why Your Partner Wants to Leave You
NOTE: I’d love to hear from you! Does any of this post strike a chord with you? What has been your experience with defensiveness? When your partner asks you to do something, do you tell them everything you’ve already done? Do you tell them they’re too sensitive when they tell you they don’t like the way […]
Great Relationships Feel Safe To Come Home To
“Safety is a pre-requisite for great relationships. Be safe to come home to–always.” ~LMB Great relationships feel good to come home to. They are the bomb shelter that protects you from the outside storms. This is as true in times of conflict as it is in times of peace. Most people know that it’s not okay […]